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I don't wake up sore, but I do wake up uncomfortable multiple times in the night. After my meteoric sleep scores the other night, now I'm back down to the 80's. How do I know that it's because I'm old and out of shape and fat? What if it's my mattress? My mattress isn't old enough to replace. And even if it was... replace with what? So... I just ordered a 4" memory foam mattress topper. At least it's from Amazon. I have no clue how I would return it but there must be some way. Rather, I hope it works. I have a 2 inches not-very-effective mattress cover on now.

I wrote that and thought. Doh. What happens if you just remove the cover you have now and have just the mattress. Don't you think you should try that first. Yes, yes. I do. Canceled the Amazon order. I'll take the cover off today and try that tonight.

I outsmarted myself already once this morning. I put in a load of laundry and then set the load to start in an hour. I meant to have it start in 2 hours. It was done when I got home from volleyball but still kind of warm so I was able to pull out those things that might wrinkle if I don't get to them soon. But, now I need to fold and put away the rest.

Julio and Biggie are involved in a massive project this morning. It involves fast chasing through the apartment and some loud language. They should be winding down here in a minute. It's a perfect day to have tufts of cat hair everywhere as the cleaner will be here this afternoon.

Oh, I finally got an eye doctor, kinda. There's an ophthalmologist at my primary doctor's group and I sent her an online message explaining my deal and asking for an appointment for a routine annual exam. She sent me to their optometrist. Which is, frankly, fine by me. It's convenient. It's covered by insurance. And if the optometrist needs assistance, she can recommend more. Also this is for February. Geesh.

Ok, I have now frittered away the morning and I need to get dressed.

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I Don't Miss Working

Nov. 3rd, 2025 08:01 pm
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In the course of some living room archaeology, I found what I hope was the last of a bunch of notebooks I’d used during my working years and shredded all of the pages of it. But I did want to make a note of a few things from it. (Last in terms of finding it, not last chronologically, by the way.)

First, there is this picture. It captures a couple of types of my usual doodles. I never understood how people could sit in a meeting and not have a writing implement in constant motion. I did sometimes take copious notes, but there were plenty of margins - and, sometimes, complete pages - filled with either branching lines or what amount to glorified stick figures. My other common doodles involved elaborate interlocking boxes.

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I also captured a few quotes:

"We are out of money, so now we must think." - Winston Churchill

I won’t identify the sources for these three, because the names won’t mean anything to you and might embarrass the people involved.

"You’re in the business of creating lies we believe."

"When you talk money, I’m awake."

"I would say I’m a theoretician, but really I’m just inept."

The last one is right up there with the most self-aware thing I ever heard anyone say. To wit, "I know I’m right, but nobody will listen to me because I’m a jerk."

Finally, my boss used to ask me to cover his boss’s staff meetings sometimes. This was over the phone since those meetings were in Los Angeles, while I was in the D.C. area. People were not always good about identifying themselves and I didn’t recognize all of the voices. Which led to my writing notes that say things like "an unknown Asian woman said something went well over the weekend." Somehow, I doubt that my boss found that particularly useful information.

Oh, yes, I love being retired.

Tofu update

Nov. 3rd, 2025 08:39 am
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So, here's my setup. See that wood floor there beyond the curtain? That's where all the litter dust and debris lived. It's the entryway from the hallway so the highest traffic area. I could not go barefoot in the area and all shoes just ground up the rock with a bad crunchy sound.

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I purposefully did not clean up that area this weekend. I scooped the box as usual. Then this morning, I used my handheld vac to clean up all the debris from the wood floor. This is the total of everything dribbled out into that former crunch land - from the front door across about a 3'x10' area. Most of it came from the edge of the carpet and there just in front of the trash bin.

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The clay litter and dust from a weekend of that area would have been way more than this. What I can't tell yet is how it's going to fair long term. Will I need to totally empty out the fox and refill or can I just keep scooping and then adding in more when needed? I don't know yet. And smell. If I go in there just after a poop, I can smell it. I could with the clay litter, too. Other than that, however, there is kind of a whiff of a fresh smell but that's it. So far, I'm quite pleased.

It was still dark when I woke up, but not for long. I could not tell if the sun was going to come out or not so I went on down the pool and got in a nice swim. It was a bit too early, too many people* down there. But no sun so good. *4 lane pool and only 1 lane available. I, of course, like the whole pool just for me.

I got nuthin' this week. It's lovely. Nothing promised, nothing required, nothing planned. I'm due for a Goodwill trip but I'm kind of in a 'don't need more shit' mood, so maybe not.

My creatures take little bits of yarn to make. But, there are often littler bits left over. I tuck those into a bag. Yesterday I tied them all together and had enough for most of two new creatures. I put them out on the shelf this morning and they were gone by 8 when the cleaners start work. I hope they end up in loving hands.

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The last out... finally

Nov. 2nd, 2025 07:06 am
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I ended up watching all of the Blue Jays/Dodgers game and it was a game. I was glad the Mariners weren't involved as it was hard enough as it was. The Blue Jays lost in the final out of the deciding game but, honestly, it was more the luck of the draw, really. Those two teams were about as equal as you can get in baseball. But, the end. No more baseball really truly until February. I am glad I am one sport only.

Biggie is the opposite of lethargic this morning. He wouldn't let me finish this entry so I went swimming. Now he still won't let me finish. He has a million toys and all he wants to play with is me!

We started a new puzzle in the elbow yesterday. It's one that has codes on the back. Letters A-F that correspond to sections of the puzzle. You can, of course, ignore them, but I started separating them according to letter and then took a break. Later, I went out and Bonny had picked up the task. Then she and I did section A together. It was fun and just the right amount of puzzling.

I've been through a number of time changes over the years and have never really suffered from it. But, yesterday about 4:30, I changed the clocks that needed it. Then I watched the end of the baseball so ended up going to sleep a little earlier than normal but also just slept til I woke up. I thought I'd slept well but...I just got my bed sleep score.

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Fitbit only gave me 84 but Fitbit is way stingy on sleep scores.

Today will be TV and puzzling and entertaining Biggie, I guess. Geesh. At least, for sure, no sports.

Oh the sun just came out. Looks like I timed my swim perfectly.

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Still amazed

Nov. 1st, 2025 06:01 pm
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I just took this picture of Biggie and Julio.

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I started to clean up the background junk and then just hit the AI thing on my phone and said 'change the background'.

They gave me four really nice options but this one just grabbed me.

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Then I asked it to make Julio smile and it told me that it couldn't do that... yet.

I turned on the World Series to check the score before I went on to watch more Season 2 of Karen Pirie (Britbox). It was 0-0 in the 2nd. I screwed around with that photo and was getting ready to change the channel when the Blue Jays hit a 3 run homer in the 3rd. So maybe Karen can wait until tomorrow.

Back into the pool

Nov. 1st, 2025 09:16 am
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It was good to get back to volleyball. We had a small group but one sans assholes so it was really lovely. Tomorrow, I can do morning laps again. Nice.

I think Biggie has a UTI but he's ok with it so far. The new litter is white so I can easily see he has a little blood in his urine. Not much. But, a little. For all I know, it's been there for a long time and it just didn't show up in the clay litter. Also he's using the litter box a fair amount. But he also loves to play in the new litter so that may be why. Nothing seems blocked and he's certainly not lethargic or appetite suppressed.

This is his royal highness right now.

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Dinner last night with the group was lovely. I wouldn't want to do it often but it was a nice change. When I got home, I turned on the TV and remembered the World Series game so I watched the last couple of innings there. The last one, mercifully, is tonight.

I'm giving serious thought to going pumpkin hunting after elbow coffee this morning. I want some Brach's mellow creme pumpkins. Just one more bag. If I can find them, great. If not, I'll live. And I want some Safeway roast beef sandwich meat. Very little on the menus looks good for this coming week. Time to eat the freezer which is actually pretty full. I have meal money to burn but I think I'll burn it with an order of cookies and some other stuff from the little Bistro shop. I have until the 10th so still some time.

This morning, I put in a pod and set the coffee to make and then went to hang my wet suit up. About once every 6 months or so, I do this and totally forget to put the cup under the drip. Today was, apparently, that day. So I need to go clean that up before elbow coffee.


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Pretty Much Caught Up

Nov. 1st, 2025 10:57 am
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Scraps of Paper: I have a bad habit of scribbling mysterious notes to myself on any handy piece of paper. This is, in general, evidence of why I got C’s in penmanship in elementary school. Here are a couple of things I managed to decipher.

“Art mirrors the audience, not the teller.” The context is obviously storytelling, but I have no idea who said this and/or who they were quoting. I do, however, think it’s an accurate statement.

I think this is something that got mentioned during High Holiday services. Kafka wrote a story about a leopard that entered a synagogue and roared before leaving town. Three weeks later, the leopard’s roar had become part of the liturgy.

Celebrity Death Watch: Note that I am trying not to fall behind because I am going on vacation soon and would rather have less to catch up on.

Samantha Eggar was an actress who appeared in such movies as Doctor Doolittle, as well as several horror movies. Yang Chen-Ning was a Nobel Prize winning theoretical physicist. Sam Rivers was the bassist for Limp Bizkit. Anthony Jackson is credited with the development of the modern six-string bass. Jackie Ferrara was a sculptor. Sirikit was the queen consort of Thailand from 1950 to 2016. J. William Middendorf was the Secretary of the Navy in the mid-1970’s. Hamilton Smith won a Nobel Pize in Physiology or Medicine for his work on restriction enzymes. Prunella Scales was an actress, best known for playing Sybil in Fawlty Towers. Alison Knowles was an artist whose work defies my descriptive abilities.

Susan Stamberg was an NPR journalist. She co-hosted All Things Considered for 14 years. She also hosted Weekend Edition Sunday from 1987 to 1989, introducing the Sunday puzzle and bringing the Car Talk hosts to the attention of all. She was considered one of the founding mothers of National Public Radio and interviewed too many prominent people for me to attempt to list them.

June Lockhart was an actress, best known for playing TV mothers, in Lassie and Lost in Space. She was on my ghoul pool list and earned me 4 points.

Things I’ve Been Doing - Medical: I finally got in to see my dentist, which I’d been postponing mostly because my schedule has been chaotic. They’ve gotten a new sort of x-ray machine which is much quicker. I also got around to getting my flu shot and this year’s COVID vaccine. My arm was particularly sore this time around. It also probably didn’t help that I was sleep deprived because I’d been woken up at 2 a.m. by a helicopter circling over I-66.

Things I’ve Been Doing - Travel Related:I went to a Travelers’ Century Club luncheon. One person had a horrific story about breaking his hip on a trip to Surinam and having to be evacuated by canoe. There was also a guest speaker who gave an interesting presentation on travel medicine.

I’ve finally gotten all my travel arrangements set up for my upcoming vacation. I do still have a couple of chores related to that to get through. Plus, of course, little details like packing.

I’ve also got three other trips to make arrangements for.

Storytelling: The Washington Folk Festival went well, though the storytelling tent was a bit closer to one of the music tents than I would have preferred. At least the morris dancers weren’t right next to us. (They’re cute, but they’re noisy.)

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I also had time to look at some of the art exhibits in another of the pavilions.

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My set was titled Spare Change and consisted of stories about transformation. I explained that characters in folk tales are always turning into something and that, on my way to the festival, I had turned into a parking lot. The stories I told included an Albanian story that has the particularly charming detail of the main character being forced to collect back taxes from the snakes in a church, a Mongolian story about a camel, The Neglected Princess (an original story, which started out when I was reading about the decline in frog populations in an article in Smithsonian Magazine), and The Princess Who Turned Into a Flower Pot, which I’d learned years ago from a friend and had told at my brother’s wedding to his first wife. I thought it went very well. And I also enjoyed listening to stories by several other tellers.

I made it to the Scary Stories swap at Quince Orchard Library the other night. The drive up was mildly annoying, since there is always roadwork on the inner loop of the beltway. The really horrible drive was going home, because the state of Maryland decided it made sense to close 3 out of 4 lanes of the outer loop of the beltway for roadwork. Not that there was any actual evidence of anybody doing any roadwork. I find it mildly terrifying to be driving my little car with so many huge trucks surrounding me, knowing that if there were an accident involving one of them I would almost certainly not survive it. Fortunately nothing happened beyond it taking me two hours for what should be a 45 minute drive. At any rate, there was a good mix of stories. I told “Ida Black,” which has to do with a woman getting revenge on the man who had her hanged for witchcraft. Some other highlights included Jennifer’s rendition of “Mr. Fox” and a story about an adoptive mother confronted with a vampire baby.

By the way, somewhat related to “Mr. Fox,” our Brothers Grimm discussion group talked about The Murder Castle, which is a rather unsatisfying version of the same theme, with the added detail of a female assistant and the confusion about whose two sisters had previously been murdered (the assistant’s or the would-be victims.) It’s no wonder that story didn’t make it into later versions.

Voting: I did early voting a week ago. The really challenging decision this time was what to do about the Virginia Attorney General race. The Democratic candidate (Jay Jones) said terrible things that can be interpreted as advocating for political violence. But the Republican party is, in general, behaving in repugnant ways. Jason Miyares is anti-abortion and pro-death penalty and opposes gender-affirming care. I considered abstaining but held my nose and voted for Jones. I was much more enthusiastic about the gubernatorial race because I think Abigail Spanberger is an excellent candidate. I’m also a big fan of my delegate (Holly Siebold), who is running for reelection.

Loser Brunch: I drove to Frederick, Maryland for a Loser Brunch at The Wine Kitchen this past Sunday. The drive up wasn’t too bad so I got there early enough to have a look around a craft market along Carroll Creek. I couldn’t resist temptation when I saw Blind Date With a Book. The idea is that the books are wrapped up, so you don’t know what book you’re buying, but they tell you what genre it is, as well as what year and what its rating is on goodreads. Kathleen took a picture of me holding up my purchase.

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As for its contents, the book proved to be The Thursday Murder Club by Richard Osman, which I had read recently but didn’t actually own. It also came with an eye mask, a tea bag, 2 bookmarks and 3 stickers. Such a charming purchase!

Re: the actual brunch, the potato and mushroom hash I got was pretty good. (I went with the vegan option because I don’t like fried eggs.) The coffee, however, was excellent. It is apparently from Dublin Roasters, which is local to Frederick. But the real point of these things is the company, not the food, and, while there were only six of us, the conversation was lively. Overall, it made for a nice morning / early afternoon.

Three more things

Oct. 31st, 2025 10:15 am
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1. I am now all dressed and ready for the day plus dinner tonight. I went down to pick up some packages and stopped to check on the pool. Erica told me they just cleared it for opening!! Doh. Ok. Volleyball tomorrow. I'm not going to mess with it today. Now that's lazy. Oh they just sent out the official notice. Still not going.

2. My Mom taught me to love Pillsbury refrigerator cinnamon rolls. You know, the ones with the icing? But, one person - that giant roll? Then they came out with smaller ones. But heat up the oven? Plus even the smaller ones have 5 in them. too many and baked but held to the next day? meh.

Dash to the rescue. I have discovered that I can open a roll and take out one and cook it in my little Dash griddle - either the waffle or the flat. 5 mins or less if I hear it up first. I can put the rest back in the fridge and eat them one day at a time. DELISH. And my world is brighter.

3. Two years ago today I was moving in here. More precisely, two years ago just now, I was chasing Julio throughout an empty condo trying to put him in the carrier. It took a solid hour and I was exhausted. Then I got to move. I have not one single fond memory of that day. There are about 42 things I would do differently if I knew then what I know now. BUT, honestly, I have no regrets at all about being here.

Coast guard

Oct. 31st, 2025 08:13 am
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Way back in the dark ages, the federal government used to come steal people. Yep. sounds familiar now, too, but that's not my point. Everyone with a penis was required to serve in the military. After that horrible time was over, I dated a guy for a while, who, during that time, had been in the Coast Guard. Prior to that he had only lived in places far from water. So I asked, Why the Fuck Coast Guard. "Well, I didn't want to get drafted and have no choice so I looked at the options... Coast Guard kinda sounded to me like Life Guard and I thought that had to be more fun than the rest. Turns out not." Yeah, he was good sex and, frankly, that was about it.

But, I think of him now repeatedly as I deal with this litter. Tofu always makes me think of Toejam and then giggle.

The new litter is different. Biggie loves to dig in it. The Tofu pellets against the rubber make a big noise. I think he's trying to connect with cats in China. There is some tracking but, if I didn't have hard wood, I'd never know it. The pellets are like ice cream sprinkles but without the color. In two days, I have found maybe 6 out here in the hallway. I put down a large round carpet in the entry so that I would not crush the clay litter that invariably ended up there into the wood floor. I think I can safely remove that carpet now. I think I'll do that today.

Clay litter makes giant balls of rock out of cat pee and smaller bundles out of cat poop. The tofu litter does the same but MUCH smaller. I'm really interested now in how it's going to work long term. But, so far, it's excellent. I did order a new scoop in hopes of making it easier to sift through the ice cream sprinkles. It should be here today.

My shades run on rechargeable batteries. They are USB macro plugs - the ones that are a major bitch to get plugged into. And they are just out of my reach. I have to get on a step stool and even then it's not quite high enough. I am going to fall off and kill myself or worse. So. Yesterday, I got magnetic plugs and cords. I put a magnetic USB plug into each shade. I can, now, without even the stool, reach up and easily hit the end of it with the magnet at the end of the charging cable and boom! charging! I'm quite pleased with myself for coming up with this solution. The shades only need charged every six months or so but now I'm on it.

Half of me has enjoyed this week off from the pool but half of me is really missing it. I walked over there the other day and could see they were working on it. I might walk over there this morning just to check and see if they know for sure if it will be available tomorrow morning for volleyball.

Bonny has organized dinner tonight. Dick and Jan and me and Bonny and 2 other people - probably Gail and Jim. Should be fun. I like eating in the dining room once in a while. But these are the same people I'll have to sit with tomorrow morning at elbow coffee. Kinda wish she'd picked another night. BUT, no big deal really.

Every once in a while, someone complains about the 1,000 piece puzzles. "Why always so many pieces?" Usually, these are people who do not normally participate. This leads me to think that if we did do a 500 piece puzzle, they would. Wrong. Plus 500 piece puzzles are a PIA. It takes twice as long to turn all the pieces right side up and do the edges as it does to do the damn puzzle. I started a 500 piece on on Sunday. Dick and Jan finished it on Wednesday night. I went out Thursday and saw it had been done except for 3 pieces that they had left for me so I could 'finish' it. Cracked me up. I went down to the puzzle closet yesterday and traded the other 500 piecers on our shelf for some good 1000 piecers.

After living with my TV subscription spreadsheet now for a while, I think I'm going to try a new scheme. I think I'm going to delete everything as it expires and then just pay for a month of whatever is showing what I want to see. I might start doing this via Prime since that's is the easiest to manage. I'm still working on the plan.

I spent some time yesterday cleaning out drawers and tossing ShitIDon'tNeed. Today, I think I'll wash the sheets and mattress covers. And I think I'll go get that started now.

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The Tofu Report

Oct. 30th, 2025 07:54 am
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The research said to empty out the litter box and then lay in a healthy layer of tofu pellets and then cover with a layer of the old, used litter. Yeah, no. The new litter was too pretty and once I dumped it into the box, I knew my days of clay litter were over for ever.

They are pellets and not little rocks. And they are a white color so the whole box looks very different I did take some time to clean up all the clay crumbs and dust from the room. Soooooo nice to have that all gone.

Biggie anointed the new stuff immediately. Julio studied it hard several times and finally, by afternoon, decided it was ok. It's heavier than clay litter to scoop but so much less messy!! And... zero dust. It's so much cleaner. In the room where the box is, there are a couple of pellets on the floor but that's because I don't have the scoop/trash positioned perfectly yet and I spilled some when I was scooping.

There may be issues I haven't seen yet but so far, it's a win.

And speaking of win, the Blue Jays beat the Dodgers last night. Shocking and really nice. They only need one more win to take the Series which is really shocking. I am sure the Mariners could not have done this.

Nothing on the calendar today particularly. I need to go down to the front desk and pick up our floor's Timber Ridge Times and distribute. But, that can happen any time. I do need a shower and that can happen now.

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Where's Waldo

Oct. 29th, 2025 08:51 am
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I went in to make up the bed and get dressed and found this.

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I'm surprised that I saw him before I flung the comforter in place.



These guys invented cat hijinks.

Tofu - finally a good use

Oct. 29th, 2025 08:03 am
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This week's big project is moving the cats from clay litter to tofu litter. I've never approved of tofu as a food but as a little, it has promise. The promise of staying in the litter box. I've been fighting clay litter ever since I moved in here with hard wood floors. It sticks to their paws and ends up all over the place and especially grinding under my shoes on those wooden floors. So. I did my research. I asked gemini and I asked chat gpt and they both said - wood or tofu with tofu being better for what I want. The goods will get here from Chewy today.

We had a giant bolt of lightning and then loud clap of thunder last night. Only one set. It was very weird. Thunder and lightening is exceedingly rare around here any time of year but especially now. I kept waiting for more but never got any more.

I canceled Netflix and Hulu this morning. I'm caught up with Netflix. ABC and Fox both stream on Hulu but, at least now, there is nothing on either that is worth $20 a month (and, yes, I can get it cheaper but I do not want ads). I can get Netflix back any time. Hulu, of course, will be disappearing but they will just transfer all their shit to Disney and raise the price.

I need some background watching, stuff that I don't have to watch intently. Like Law and Order or vet shows. I'm working on my YouTube algorithm but also, I've got House Hunters on HBO. And, I have, recently, just turned off the TV and listened to my book while I knit. Habits change.

I ordered a track suit from Costco. They have started (a year or so ago) carrying some plus size clothing. Nice stuff. Online, of course, not in the stores. Anyway, I cannot remember how I happened on this, but I had been in the market for a track suit. Something comfy, that fit, that looks good enough for me to wear downstairs sometimes or to and from the pool. $16? OK. I assumed the fabric would be shit and/or it wouldn't fit. I'd just take it to the store and return it. It arrived yesterday.

So for a fat girl, off the rack clothes that fit are unicorns. This is a real unicorn.

It fits perfectly. The legs are the perfect length, the elastic stays on my waist without even tying. The pockets are deep enough for my cellphone. The sleeves are the perfect length and wide enough to easily fit my flappy upper arms. The fabric is great. It feels like a hug and looks really nice. I got green which is really more brown. 16 fucking dollars. So of course, I ordered another one. Black this time which I do not need but fuck. unicorn for $16. Who cares if I don't need it.

Biggie's getting bored and thinks sitting on my laptop might fix it so I think it's time to go get dressed.

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Snow on the mountain

Oct. 28th, 2025 07:46 am
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Most of our mornings, recently, have been foggy but this morning, so far, it's very clear and there is definitely snow on the mountain tops. Let's see if this crazy zoom can get it. Yep! Just shot this from right here sitting at my table. Amazing. Amazing that this is my view and amazing that this silly telephone can take such a picture.

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My chauffeur service got canceled. Hazel came by late yesterday to say that they did not get the appointment after all. She was with John so I told them both that they do not need me. They only need to go to the front desk and asked for a ride and they can do that at the last minute if they need to. I'm not sure they believed me but next time they come ask, that's what I will tell them ... again.

The front desk manager actually called me yesterday - after I sent an email asking - and explained that what they offer is concierge Uber an Lyft service. You go down to the front desk and request a ride. They make all of the arrangements and the car picks you up and takes you wherever you want to go. THEN when you are ready to come home, you call the front desk (or, like in Hazel's case, have the doctor's office do it) here and tell them you are ready and your ride comes to where ever you are and picks you up and brings you home. No cellphone needed. No app needed. Not even a credit card. The payment goes onto your Timber Ridge account. I think that is slick as shit, honestly.

Not to mention it takes me flat off the fucking hook. Whew. It's not just the one drive, it's the future of being the person she depends on and then involved with her medical care and grocery store trips. I fell into a rabbit hole with Myrna which resulted in my making decisions that were not mine to make (and making some of them very wrong) and my being beat up by her family for being so involved. It was a hard, but a good lesson. I just need to remember it. The line between being nice and kind or getting sucked in is not that fine. I just need to pay attention.

So today's ONLY to-do is to go out to the elbow this afternoon for an hour and work the jigsaw puzzle while Tatitania cleans my house. Tough duty. But, hey, I can do it.

Oh shit, I just saw where the baseball game last night went 18 innings. THANKTHELORD I can just ignore it.

I was thinking about making a trip to Goodwill this week since I'm so pool-free but then I remembered that this is the one week, for sure, when a casual trip to Goodwill is not even possible. Halloween. Oh well, just as well. I do not need more stuff.

I have had a nice spell of not too much spending and zero Amazon returns! The rain jacket I ordered from Columbia arrived and it works fine. I'd love for the arms to have a bit more room but I can deal. And, of course, we are celebrating by having one of the first non rainy days in a while!

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And in much better news

Oct. 27th, 2025 03:24 pm
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I have a rug in front of the litter box that is very nubby in hopes that they will lose some of the paw sticking litter before they hit the kitchen floor. The rug is about 4x4 feet and it had gotten gnarly. So I tossed it into the washer/dryer and gave it clean. The washer/dryer performed flawlessly. And the rug looks amazing. Whew on two counts.

I need to change to tofu litter or some of that ground wood stuff. But, meanwhile. Good news all around.

Slippery slope

Oct. 27th, 2025 03:08 pm
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This morning, Hazel came to me and asked me to take her to the doctor's tomorrow. Her doctor is a good 20-30 minutes from here. I told her I would do it. I am not doing anything and it's at 11 so not a horrible time. I told her I'd come get her at 10:30. She went off happy.

And I got more and more annoyed. I am not her ride. I am not her keeper. Her husband will never drive again. She can barely see to walk much less drive. They sold the fucking car. She told me this morning that her son and daughter in law were too busy to take her.

And I realize that this is the beginning of this being an every day thing until one of us dies. And what if she wants me to go into the doctor with her?? This is not my job and if it is, I quit.

After chewing on it all day, I finally went down to Bonny and asked her to talk me off the ledge. I wasn't a 10th of the way into the explanation when she said loudly "NO!! You shouldn't be taking her. I know I won't. No. It's not fair to either of us." And "She needs to figure out a long term plan that is not you or me."

She told me I should tell her that I won't take her tomorrow but, I won't. I'll use tomorrow to Have The Talk. To tell her she's enjoying her last ride with me. Bonny says she can go to the front desk any time she needs a ride anywhere and they will get her a Lyft or an Uber and make all the arrangements and charge her Timber Ridge account so she doesn't even need to pay. I just sent a note down to the front desk to make sure I've got the facts right. If Bonny is right, that is the golden ticket.

Bonny's a good egg. At least I did get the gas tank filled last week.
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I keep running out of soy sauce. I don't even use it that much but, every time I reach for it, I then look for my backup cause the soy sauce is low and I have no backup. Then I buy more and lather, rinse, repeat. Soooo weird. But today's teriyaki from the freezer was delicious.

Turns out Saturday night's power failure killed my toothbrush and two of Timber Ridge's elevators. Amazon is bringing me a new toothbrush today and I got the email about the elevator just as I was heading out to it so I turned and used the closer one. Now they are all fixed.

I did a small load of laundry yesterday and it finished without a hitch. WTF? That machine is a prima dona. I canceled the service appointment and got my $50 refund started. I was at least able to do it all online. No phone calls needed. The way godintended.

I spent most of yesterday making snowmen. I made three. I don't really like any of them. The red hat is the best one but it was also the most fiddly to make. BUT here's the fun part. I took this picture of the three of them.

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And then in the Google photos app, I clicked on edit and then on the microphone and told it to replace the background with blue. In the blink of an eye, I got this.

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Wild.

I made one more and he's closest to what I want but still wrong proportions and his carrot nose looks like a duck bill. I may try one more or I may just abandon snowmen.

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I put them all on the shelf and half were gone before I left for my swim this morning and the other half were gone by the time I got back. So at least they have been adopted.

I have a new/different number to call to see if I can get a nearby eye doctor but I'm not going to call on Monday morning. It's no emergency - tomorrow or Wednesday will be soon enough.

My last swim was lovely. They are now saying they hope to be finished with the pool work by Friday afternoon. I'm going to need to force myself to walk or something every day for the rest of the week. Sigh.

Blink?

Oct. 26th, 2025 07:42 am
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Apparently, we had a power outage last night. Not for very long, but long enough to reset the coffee maker and the microwave clock. Everything else recovered before I woke up. We did have storms - wind and rain. Not as bad as Seattle and other areas but enough, I guess.

I spent most of the day making snowmen. The first one is nearly the best but it is way too fiddly and I don't like the nose. I fixed the nose issue, but don't like the second - non fiddly - one nearly as much. I want them to be easy to produce a bunch without getting tired of them. And they need to be cute. I have some new ideas for prototype number 3. I'll do it up today.

There is nothing killer on the brunch menu so I think I'll go swim and then come home and make my own brunch. Then I plan to give all the filters on the washing machine, a good scrub and try a small test load.

Julio has two new toys that are, of course, automated. They turn on at intervals. One will start up if he plays with it hard enough. Just now they are both 'asleep' and he is wandering from one to the other looking for some action and not getting any. It's pretty funny.

I think I'll go pop into my suit and get my swim in. They are closing the pool next week to change the sand filters. The scheduler told me I could swim in the morning as long as I was out my 9 and then that is it, probably until Friday or Saturday. It is so wonderful to have such a beautifully maintained pool, it is hard to begrudge them a week so I'm going to be happy that my skin will maybe not be as dry and I can sleep late every single day.

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October Prompts

Oct. 25th, 2025 07:52 pm
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Usually I wait until at least the end of the month to do these, but this happens to be convenient for me to do right now, while I try to find all the various scraps of paper listing other things I want to write about.

1. What was your favourite subject in high school? In general, I liked my science classes, particularly chemistry. I also really liked the Great Books class I took one semester senior year.

2. Name three people whose lives have been improved by knowing you, and explain why. Cindy, because I listen to her complaints about work and help her plan travel. Kim, because I’m supportive when she’s depressed and I come up with interesting things for us to do. The Gentleman with Whom I am Conducting the World’s Longest Running Brief Meaningless Fling for somewhat obvious reasons.

3. What profession would you have chosen, if not your current one? Maybe a bookseller.

4. How do you react when you realize you've made a mistake? Mistake? What’s that? Seriously, my first instinct is denial, but then I try to figure out how I can fix things.

5. Describe your favorite sound. Waves crashing against a beach, especially on a stormy day.

6. Imagine you are attending your dream concert—what songs would you want to be played? What does the stage look like? I rarely attend concerts that have more than one performer. I would love to see Jonathan Richman again and I wish he would perform both “Give Paris One More Chance” and “Here Come the Martian Martians,” neither of which I’ve seen him do live. Beyond that, I’ve never seen Luka Bloom live and would like to. And it’s been years since I’ve seen Eric Bogle, but I don’t think he's touring any more.

7. Where are you from? I grew up in a ridiculously small town on (well, off the south shore of) Long Island.

8. If there was one person who you had the power of giving immortality to, who would it be and why? I have read enough fantasy to believe that immortality is not a gift, since it doesn’t guarantee eternal health. And one would invariably outlive the people one loved the most.

9. What is your favorite game? Why? Well, the game I play most often (with two different groups of friends) is Code Names. But, if I had to choose one game, it would probably be backgammon. I used to play it all the time, both with a couple of different friends and with my mother (who I taught to play).

10. What is your all-time favorite sports team? First is the Red Sox and second is whoever is playing against the Yankees, aka the Source of All Evil in the Universe.

11. What is a smell that you remember from growing up? The smell of the ocean. I also really love the smells of a couple of flowers - honeysuckle (though it can get overwhelming) and lily of the valley.

12. What is the best decision you have ever made in your life? Probably going to MIT. It opened up a lot of doors to me. And the great thing about MIT is that people there tend to be very devoted to whatever they are passionate about, which is not necessarily their studies.

13. What is something you are optimistic about? It’s rather hard to be optimistic given the politics of our times, but I like to think we’ll get past the more ridiculous aspects of the current world situation and regain the rule of law.

14. What would you say is the biggest accomplishment in your life so far? I had a successful career and am in a good financial situation in retirement. That has enabled me to see much of how magnificent our world is.

15. When was the last time you failed at something? I’ve continually failed to achieve total world domination, but I’d settle for having a clean and organized home.

16. Which wild animal would you adopt as a pet and why? I wouldn’t adopt any wild animal as a pet. Wild animals need to be in their proper environments and suburban America wouldn’t cut it as ideal for any of them.

17. When was the last time you tried something new? I think the paper conservation class I went to in Greece in June counts.

18. What is your favorite room in your home and why? Probably my bedroom, which is usually the least chaotic part of my house.

19. If TV and the internet didn’t exist, what would you do with your time? I’d spend a lot of time reading and listening to music and, hopefully, also making music.

20. What are some major inventions that happened during your lifetime? I am old enough that there are lots of things that didn’t exist in my youth. The most obvious is personal computing and, especially, cell phones.

21. What have you done that was "out of character.” I was almost 40 before I ever slept a night in a tent. With is something I discovered that I really enjoy doing.

22. Name four items that can always be found in your refrigerator. The things I always have in my refrigerator are mostly condiments, e.g. mustard, sriracha, and orange marmalade. There’s pretty much always packets of yeast. There’s also probably things like butter, sour cream, and some sort of fruit, often oranges and/or apples.

23. Do you have any fantasies of living in the jungle? Only for brief periods of time. The jungle tends to be hot and humid and have scary insects.

24. What is on your mind right now, and will it affect your sleep? I’m trying to get some travel plans finalized. I doubt that will affect my sleep.

25. What childhood character traits did you have to let go of but wish you didn’t? What can you do to adopt these traits again? I can’t really think of anything. I think I’m a better person than I was as a child.

26. Do you prefer character-driven or plot-driven novels? Why? I definitely prefer plot-driven novels. If nothing happens and it’s just people talking to one another, it’s hard to keep my attention.

27. What is your favorite type of weather and why? I like dry and crisp air, with temperatures in the mid to upper 60’s Fahrenheit and slightly cloudy skies (to avoid glare). That way I’m comfortable and, as long as it’s dry out, my hair won’t be entering the room an hour before the rest of me.

28. How are you going to entertain yourself when you’re retired? If you are retired already, are you spending your time the way you envisioned it? I think I’m spending my retirement more or less the way I thought I would. The first thing I did after I retired was the Smithsonian Certificate Program in World Art History. I try to go to a fair number of educational events. And, of course, I travel a lot, though there are always more places I want to go.

29. What conspiracy theory do you believe is true? I don’t believe any of them are true.

30. Which person would you like to see more often than you do now? The gentleman with whom I am conducting the world’s longest running brief meaningless fling, of course.

31. What qualities do you judge harshly in others, and how might they reflect parts of yourself? The things I look on harshly in other people are definitely traits that I feel bad about myself for. Those include being disorganized and lazy and being judgemental.

Every 6 months

Oct. 25th, 2025 09:04 am
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So apparently, my fancy assed GE combo washer/drier which I really love, needs hand holding by a representative of the mother ship every six months. Yesterday, after 5 hours, the clothes were still wet. Really wet. So I hung them up all over the apartment and logged into my extended warranty and set up an appointment. Tuesday afternoon. I just cleaned all the filters but I'll do it again and then do a test run in hopes that it was just a one time glitch. I really do love the machine but fuck me, I'd love it better if it weren't so needy.

I had just finished watching something Oh the new Boston Blue (I think one episode is enough of that one), when I got a text from my nephew. "What do you think of this?" hmmmmm It was a head scratcher. I try to keep up with the kids these days but I failed... so I responded "What this?"

Turns out he meant the world series game which I had ignored so successfully, I forgot it was even on. I popped over to Fox and OMG. The score was Blue Jays 11 and Dodgers 2 in the 7th. NOT what I expected. I actually watched a little but those broadcasters chased me into mute and then I gave up entirely. I'm glad they won one.

Steve reminded me this morning that it's time to start working on Christmas dolls. He thinks, since the bunnies of last Easter and the pumpkin people/ghosts, that I'll be doing every season. Nope. BUT I might make up a bunch of snow men. I don't have a pattern perfected but I have some ideas. I need some brown pipe cleaner and orange fimo clay. After elbow coffee.

I have this weird patch of dry skin on the palm of my right hand. I've actually had it before and now it's back. I think it's from the pool. While doing laps, I push off the side with the palm of my right hand. I need to not do that and see if the dry patch clears up. It's itchy and uncomfortable.

I need to get dressed and put away all the now dry clothes hanging around before I head out to the elbow.

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Database maintenance

Oct. 25th, 2025 08:42 am
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Good morning, afternoon, and evening!

We're doing some database and other light server maintenance this weekend (upgrading the version of MySQL we use in particular, but also probably doing some CDN work.)

I expect all of this to be pretty invisible except for some small "couple of minute" blips as we switch between machines, but there's a chance you will notice something untoward. I'll keep an eye on comments as per usual.

Ta for now!

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